Life in America Versus Life in Germany
{Note: What follows was written after an unusual long amount of thought provoking comments from friends after posing the question: Should I move to Germany or Stay in the United States? }
Yes, Well, what a great thread here. I believe Bianca’s point is that Americans don’t understand Europe and that is understandable since most of us have not been there. I do believe America is a great country, but after seeing Europe, I have come to understand that America has some flaws.
Unfortunately, most Americans appear to be oblivious to what those flaws are. Many of our very ‘American’ attitudes serve a system that is not actually very supportive of the average American. On the other hand, I do not believe in socialism either. But whether Americans want to believe it or not, we actually do live in a socialistic country.
So, in closing, I’ll just say that I want to thank everyone for their wonderful comments. I’ve put the decision in Bianca’s hands because I have come to realize that it would be very unfair of me to be stubborn and insist that she moves here. While I do hope she will choose to move here, I hope even more that she will did it of her own accord and not be left with the feeling that she ‘had no choice’.
For me, although there is absolutely nothing wrong with Germany, in the final analysis, I do not want to live there. I do think it is possible that life would actually be better in Germany and that is another reason that I am leaving the final decision in Bianca’s hands.
One final thought: The German system is actually quite a good one. And it is clear to me after spending time in Germany that many of our ‘American’ values are actually German in origin. Given that much of our original population was German, I do not believe it is at all far fetched to say that.



